If you’ve ever watched a movie, or been out in the real world, you’ll know that there are certain women who are out of most men’s leagues. They’re so beautiful that they would never even look at someone like you. Right? Wrong. It is true that some women are so stunningly beautiful that they put supermodels to shame.
Those are the women who are out of most men’s leagues. Except…that doesn’t mean that those same women would never look at them and see them as a potential partner or boyfriend.
You might think it is impossible for someone who comes from such a different social class to ever go on a date with them and not just because they refuse to lower their standards but because they simply aren’t their type. But the truth is, these things do happen, more often than you think, and it isn’t as big of an issue as you may think it is.
Confidence is key
A woman who is out of your league may come across as intimidating, but if you can relax and be confident in your own skin, you can disarm her defenses. Confidence is key in day games and any other aspect of dating. If you look nervous, she’ll think that you’re not sure of yourself and that you’re not worth her time.
If you’re confident, she’ll think you’re sure of yourself and you’re worth her time. It is that simple. If a woman is out of your league, and she sees you nervous, she’s going to think that you’re not really worth her time. If she sees you confident, she’s going to think you might be worth her time.
Yes, you can make it work
Yes, you can make it work. Don’t let the idea that she’s out of your league hold you back. The good thing about dating is that it can be completely casual. You don’t have to be with her forever, or even for a long time. There are no rules saying that you have to be with her forever or even for a long time. You can just go out on a couple of dates, have some fun, and then go your separate ways when you’re done.
There is no commitment, no pressure. You can even keep it a secret from your friends and family if you want to. There are no rules saying you have to tell anyone anything. If she likes you, you can take her out, have some fun, and then go your separate ways when you’re done. There is no commitment, no pressure. It is just two people having fun and enjoying each other’s company.
The game plan
The first thing to do is to forget about the idea that she’s out of your league and focus on the fact that she’s a human being. If she’s just another person out on the street, you can be relaxed and confident around her. She’s just an ordinary person, no matter how beautiful she is. The next thing is to realize that she’s out there, just like you. She may be out there on a daily basis like you are.
She may also be putting off the vibe that she wants someone to come up to her and talk to her like you do. You just need to open your eyes and see her. If you’re on the street, look for women who are walking around by themselves.
If you’re in a coffee shop or a bar, look for women who are sitting or standing by themselves. Have your eyes open for the woman who is out there but doesn’t have anyone to talk to. Approach her, introduce yourself, and see where things go from there.
Show her you’re worth it
Once you’ve started talking to her, show her that you’re worth her time. Keep your conversation interesting and dynamic. Don’t start talking about yourself too soon. If she asks you a question, give her an interesting answer but don’t go on for too long. You don’t want the conversation to be all about you. You want to be charming and likable while also being interested in her. You want her to be interested in you.
You can do so by asking her questions, but don’t go on for too long. Short, to-the-point questions are best. When it comes to flirting, do so subtly. Touch her arm while you’re talking to her, and look her in the eyes when you’re talking to her. Touch her arm or leg while you’re talking to her. Give her a compliment, but don’t go overboard.
Be funny and provide value
Once she’s interested in you, she may ask you if you want to go out sometime. If she does, suggest a date. If she doesn’t ask you, suggest a date yourself. Make it casual and fun. At some point during your conversation, use a neg (a put-down that is said in a positive way, meant to be playful and friendly).
When you do, she’ll know that you’re interested in her. You also want to provide value while you’re talking to her. Be interesting, have some knowledge, and have some life experiences that you can talk to her about.
Stay in touch and make her want more
If you’ve gone on one date with her, you may want to go on another. To do so, don’t just disappear and then reappear a few days later. Instead, stay in touch with her. You can do so with texting. Send her a few texts every day, but don’t overdo it. Send her a few flirty texts, but don’t go overboard. Don’t be needy. Don’t be too clingy. You can also send her a few texts every couple of days.
Or send her a couple of texts a week. Whatever you do, don’t go overboard. Make them fun, interesting, and engaging. Don’t just send her a boring text that says “Hey, what’s up?” or “What’s going on?” Instead, send her a funny GIF, a meme, or an interesting article or story. Make her want more, but don’t push too hard.
Dating is all about approachability. If you’re not approachable, you may as well be a stranger in a crowded room. If you treat approaching women like it’s just another part of your daily life, you won’t put so much pressure on it. You’ll be able to relax and enjoy it.
You can go out and date women who are out of your league. You just have to relax and be confident in yourself, and show them that you’re worth their time. You can do so by being charming, and likable while being interested in them. You can also be funny, and provide value while staying in touch and making them want more.